Pick-a-boo!

September 11, 2010 at 8:40 pm (Uncategorized) (, , , , , , , , )

Object Constancy, in psychology, is the notion of permanence. When something or someone is out of our sight, we still know it/he exists. When we don’t have a pack of cookies in our house, we know that somewhere inside the supermarket, there is. The problem now is how to pay those. Oh, but we know that somewhere inside our parent’s pocket is cold hard cash waiting to be spent. That’s why we were so loved when we were babies. We don’t have that object constancy. We don’t ask for money when we’re told we don’t have any. Do you remember playing “pick-a-boo!”? Or “Eat…bulaga!”? No matter how many times our parents or caretaker hide their faces with their hands or an object and go “pick-a-boo!” on us, we still continue to be surpised and be amazed. Because for us, we can’t see therefore, they don’t exist.

Well, babies and NSM going well together? You bet! The common denominator is, yes you guessed right, object constancy. Without sight, things don’t exist for babies. That does not hold true on New Social Media and the Internet in general. It might even go like this: with sight, things don’t exist.  We may tell that though we can see it right in front of us, it’s not always true, it’s non-existent.

 Last month, I saw two of my batch mates whom I haven’t seen for quite some time and I suddenly exclaimed to my classmate beside me, “We rarely see those two these past few weeks, maybe they go home straight after their class.” She then proudly said, “They’re in facebook!” Wow. That’s great, I answered, a virtual classmate. What happened to sitting next to each other ranting about how toxic college life is? We simply don’t just know they exist, we also know where to find them, where they are. Even in places where you can’t go physically. No, it’s not heaven people. We’re not talking about spirituality.

 If we don’t know where to point things out, how are we different from a toddler then? We know there are toys inside the house but we can’t say exactly where. Remember, the true test of knowledge today is, knowing where to find who and who to ask what.  We develop object constancy naturally as we grow up but being able to identify the well-informed is a different thing. NSM can guide us with this.

 Organizations should recognize this. They should know where to find resources and where to find unpleasant talks about their companies, especially on the Internet where finding is easy. Also, who to ask for help and who to take care. Same with OrCom people, walking encyclopedias are nice but being acquianted to them is a great thing. Never burn bridges. Know people. As always been said, we are the sum of the people around us. Same goes with our networks, online and offline.

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1 Comment

  1. starrylines said,

    hi yayie! yes, i agree with your idea that today, it’s a matter of knowing where to find who and who to ask what and not knowing it all! I find that comforting, because knowing it all is just so difficult and impossible! And now, with NSM, it’s just so possible to know something, “see” someone and look for what’s not seen at the moment. There, in cyberspace, we can connect with people and ask them stuff,or the internet itself. Good thing we’ve developed object permanence! 😛

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